The Valentine Issue, SEXCAPADE

10 Situations That Make Women Want Sex

sex scene starring Brad Pitt or Antonio Banderas may just be enough to get her revved up and ready for you. So, turn your next humdrum night in watching movies, into a night you won't soon forget. (read more)

If you've heard "I'm not in the mood" more

times than you'd care to mention, you're

not alone. Many men complain that their

women just don't want sex as often as

they do. Lucky for you, I've decided to let

you in on 10 secrets; the 10 situations in

which women are the horniest.
So, read on and find out when you are

practically guaranteed sex.

1- After an argument

The concept of "make-up sex" is not a myth. A heated argument with your woman tends to get

your blood boiling, and your heart pumping. And once you've both gotten whatever's been

bothering you off your chests and told each other exactly how you feel, there's nothing quite

like turning the tables by taking her in your arms, kissing her passionately and letting your

heightened emotions take over.

Even if you've upset her and she's crying, that's okay. Let her calm down, wipe her tears away

and make love to her.

2- Happy occasion

Just like anger and sadness, extreme happiness can also get a woman in the mood. So, if she

just got her degree, got a great new job, just found out she's pregnant, or another similarly

joyous event has just taken place, it's time to channel all of that positive energy into some

great sex.

3- Amid stress

Although I wouldn't consider stress an extreme emotion, it can raise a woman's libido.

If your woman's been likened to a chicken without a head lately, chances are that she'd be

quite appreciative if you offered her a release for her tension. That goes for stress-induced

headaches too, by the way. That's right; a roll in the hay often gets rid of her headaches

altogether. Be sure to tell her that the next time she gives you that tired line.

4- Jealousy

I'm not talking jealousy of the psychotic kind here; I'm referring to that little twinge of

insecurity that comes over her when another woman is doing her competitive bitch thing

and putting the moves on you, so to speak. After an evening of watching her man be hit

on by other women, she may just want to remind you about one of the important reasons

you're with her and not them. But don't go out of your way to make her jealous, that will

just hurt and confuse her in the long run, diminishing the likelihood of your getting laid

even further.

5- Day 14... or so

Wow, this is a shocker: A woman gets horny when she's ovulating. So, if it's been about

two weeks since her last period, now is probably a good time to initiate some action, if

she hasn't beaten you to it already.

6- Party on

I'm not advocating getting her drunk and taking advantage of her here. But, there's nothing

like a little dancing and drinking to get a woman in the mood. So, pour her her favorite

kind of liquid courage, lead her in a slow dance on your living room floor, and watch as her

inhibitions slowly melt away, allowing you to proceed with the matter at hand. Cheers!

7- Sexy movie

Most women aren't that into porn, especially not the raunchy, hard-core stuff. But a steamy

sex scene starring Brad Pitt or Antonio Banderas may just be enough to get her revved up

and ready for you. So, turn your next humdrum night in watching movies, into a night you

won't soon forget.

8- Long-distance love

Long-distance relationships have the potential to be great for your sex life, as you will

typically spend several days or weeks apart, pining for one another, with maybe just a

couple of phone calls to keep you going, so that by the time you are reunited, all you

want to do is devour each other.

9- Abstinence

The longer a woman goes without having sex, the hornier she'll be. So, if the woman

you're after has been single for a while, and isn't the one-night stand type, chances are

that she's looking for the right guy to break her dry spell. It just may be you.

10- Creative pitch

If your woman enjoys using her creativity, whether it be in the kitchen, with a paintbrush

or musically, these occasions may be conducive to great sex. So, the next time she's

making you a gourmet meal, you may just want to slip into the kitchen for some pre-

dinner sex.

let's get it on

As you can see, women want it more often than you may think. You just have to know

how to recognize the moment, and seize it. So the next time she comes home stressed

out from her day at work, instead of sulking that you won't be getting any that night,

have a glass of wine while waiting for her, play some smooth jazzy tunes on the stereo,

and offer to ease her mind. The ball's in your court.